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The Cat that Loved us…(Still Does)

A few weeks ago, we had sub-zero temperatures in New Jersey. My wife had a late night at school and upon arriving home around 10pm, she noticed a cat. The cat followed her towards the house after she exited the car. She got into the house and told me that there was a cat outside. I went out to investigate since I was concerned the cat would freeze. Unlike wild cats that see a human being and free, this cat approached me and was ready to be petted. I carried it into the house and did what we thought was the ‘right thing.’ We called the police in order to get in touch with the Animal Control personnel.

You may not believe it, but the response we got was shocking and plain out unbelievable. We were asked to ‘throw’ the cat back out into the cold night. Heart broken and distressed we had to comply. Once I put the cat out, it ran across the street towards the Animal Shelter place. It made me think that someone might have abandoned the cat outside the gate near the Animal Shelter. More so, this was no wild cat. It had a collar but no name or address, was well groomed and smelled like cherry blossom shampoo, but despite telling this to the 911 Dispatcher, there was no concern.

The cat run back after me once it noticed me head back to the house. However, there was nothing I could do. A couple days later, the same cat walked back to our house around 8pm. We heard a ‘Meow’ at our back door, and upon opening the door, the cat popped in. We were thrilled to know it survived that cold night but could not figure out where it had spent a couple days and nights at. Either way, now it was in our house, and the kids are thrilled at best.

They had always wanted a pet. Here was a ‘loving’ cat ready to be petted and more. I made an extra effort to speak to the Animal Shelter personnel in person and mentioned about the cat in my house. He just smiled and said, ‘the cat is home now.’ Though with reservations, we (parents) have come to terms with the fact that we now have a cat. We (parents) felt we were not ready to get a pet. However, let me put it this way “Our kids’ unspoken prayers have been answered.”

May your unspoken prayers be answered too!

[Assuming someone reads this article and recognizes the cat, and wants to claim it, you are more than welcome. We shall adopted another cat from the shelter, otherwise our kids will not be happy to let go a cat that they like dearly.]

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Penance Penance Penance

Fridays are customary family nights for us. That said, we sit together and watch a movie. The choice of the movie is agreed upon by voting… (we are five, each person one vote, majority wins).

Among our latest movie was Bernadette (Ignatius press)[amazon_link asins=’B000MTEGSG’ template=’ProductCarousel’ store=’drkids-20′ marketplace=’US’ link_id=’57d994d5-18e3-11e8-ae0d-e52e0ef89803′] We felt since Feb. 11th 2018, marked the 160th anniversary of  the apparitions of Our Lady of Lourdes it was a nice movie to watch. I mean 160th anniversary, there has to be some special about it

Sydney Penny performance as Bernadette is superb. Indeed, the movie as a whole is great. We greatly enjoyed it. One message that resonated was that of the need to do penance. That is a timely message since Feb 14th marked the start of the Lenten period.

Enjoy watching, have a fruitful Lenten period and happy family time.

 

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Tears of a six year old…

As a parent, nothing can be more devastating than the loss of a child or loved one. Yet the sad reality is that we are living in such uncertain times. We are greatly sadden by the untimely deaths of 17 youths whose lives were cut short. It is hard to imagine the pain and grief of all their parents, friends and even strangers alike

I left the News channel on, and our 6 year old daughter happened to see and listen to the updates of the Florida mass shooting. I walked back into the living room to find her almost in tears.

“Daddy, this is so sad” she grieved. “It is so sad…they are all dead…” she lamented

I was caught totally off guard by her reaction and at the same time realizing that she had a valid point and reaction. Not sure what to say, and not wanting to say the wrong ‘words’ I suggested to her to change the channel to the Olympics. It calmed her down but in the back of my mind, I know we have a tough talk coming up soon.

What do I say and not what to say? Death is real and uncertain, but we can’t live our lives in fear! Guns and their problems! One thing I know for sure, “the problems we face today, cannot be solved with the same level of thinking that created them.” (Albert Einstein)