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I once worked at Tutoring Club. My custom was to get there before the client arrived and sharpen the pencils ready for use. Any time I had to use a blunt pencil, I felt my mood decline. Interestingly, the owner of the Tutoring Shop took over the tradition and would sharpen the pencils before my arrival.

Long and behold, a few years later, our 9 year old son has the same habit. He will sharpen his pencil a couple times while completing his homework. I know I did not teach him that. He picked up the habit by himself. I have started to encourage him to use mechanical pencils to minimize the trips to the sharpener.

I guess the apple does not fall far from the tree! Can you think of a similar instance?

 

I am very handy. Growing up, I saw and helped my dad fix a lot of things…from small electronics to cars. It is no surprise then, that some of his apprentice rubbed well on me. LOL. My kids have seen me fix laptops, toys, phones (you name it) that belong to us or even our friends. Thus said, every time things get broken in our house, they run to me to fix them.

Our youngest daughter realized that her daddy can make money fixing things. She sat me down and lectured me that when I fix things, I need to charge a fee and get rich. Given she is 5 years old, I did not make much of her dialogue but certainly agreed with her. After all, she had a valid point.

 The other day, she broke her Minnie pendant. It is among her treasured toys. She walk over to me and handled me the broken pendant and 25 cents as payment to fix it. Yes! She preaches and does what she preaches. With a smile, I took the pendant and placed it on the table and promised to fix it. She wanted it fixed there and then. I told her in that case, it would cost her more money for instant service. To my total amazement, she went back to her “bank” and brought me more money (I guess all the coins that were left there).

I got busy fixing the broken pendant. In the process, she renegotiated her payment pleading that now she had no money left. Touched, I gave her back a few coins knowing that, at least, she meant it when she asked me to charge for my services. I would have fixed her pendant for free, but no, she paid without being asked too.

What would you do..?

 

Every now and then, our youngest daughter will reminds us to listen to her. As parents we are eager to pass down the knowledge we have. Occasionally our well-meant intentions are met with disdain and protest.

I do not want to wear those clothes today, I want my hair made into a pom-pom and more. We have learnt to be open to their desires and choices. Listening to them is part of parenting. After all, every child is unique in their own way and personality.

To sum up, as much as we lend an ear to their dialogues we have check points in place. Not always do what they want sell, we are still parents and ‘we still know better.’ Consequently, listen to me or us is still a valid protest in this house.

Lend an ear, you may learn something new…

 

This year, Lenten period has a lot to offer in an effort to make for a better tomorrow. There are divisions, dissatisfaction, dread, and many other issues affecting our communities. While is it true, one can not dwell on negatives, ignorance is not a solution either.

On our part as DR&KIDS, we look forward to use this Lenten Period to reach out to others, share with others and to be grateful for all the little blessings which often we take for granted…For example, to be grateful for water. It is our hope that everyone will find a way to give back, appreciate and spread the Love…

How about you,  40 Days of ???